Recruiting "over" someone is in no way a question of loyalty. When a Self takes an Andrew, there is no promise, implies or actual, that he won't recruit other players at the position. In fact, he MUST recruit other players to have a full team etc. The coach will always recruit the very best players he can. No way any coach . . . ever . . . anywhere has said - - - "I can't recruit Super Stud Point Guard because he's better than that Point Guard I recruited last year and that wouldn't be right after all the promises I made to him about how great it would be for him here at Ypsilanti State U,"
There is no recruiting "over". Who is "over" who is decided on the court. No coach will ever play a lesser player over a better player either. A Coach might have reasons he thinks Player A is better than Player B for his team when his own fans and media might think Player B is better but the coach isn't "favoring" Player A for any reason other than he thinks that Player gives him more chance to win. They want to win. Period. All players should expect the coach will absolutely TRY to recruit over them. Some will like the challenge - - others will feel entitled to something and want to "cash" that entitlement.