To be fair, many people, including me in these sorts of situations, give anonymously even though no one would know my name except for my friends. But if you were someone whose name is known, for being a former or current player, family member, coach, faculty, staff, etc., people would always complain, especially in these days of NIL. We paid you HOW much and you're only giving back $X? So players in particular, in any sport, no matter how much you love or merely tolerate your school and your coach, are in a lose-lose situation.