EL, I will try to help you out since you are having such a hard time with this. You earlier left out a key word: influenced. First, you only quoted "had to be", and added "based on nothing?" in your reply as if that is all he said and he was saying 100% had to be. Then, you quoted "had to be, at least slightly" and said that would be like saying "definitely probably". But, let's look at exactly what he said: "had to be influenced, at least slightly". Wow, that changes everything doesn't it? You see, influence does not have to be 100%. You can be slightly influenced by something. And it is very common for most everyone (except you I guess) to say or think someone or something had to be "slightly influenced" by something. Just look it up. I am sure you will find the phrase all over the place. So, as I often have to say with you, just take the L here and stop making it worse for yourself. LOL.