you think a problem of this board is that we make excuses for the program?
the mother of a player who I'm sure has read for a long time yet held her tongue until she no longer could, comes on here and voices her disappointment with how we as "fans" continously complain about every play that doesn't go right, every decision made that doesn't work, and worse about the players dedication, abilities and physical and mental toughness. and you think a problem is that we make excuses. we sit here anonymously on our asses in our leather chairs with nothing invested other than a check we write each year, and complain about what we deserve and that we've waited too long to not have glory to brag about in our offices in March. please. these coaches, kids and their families are the ones invested. I'd rather show my appreciation for their efforts, build them up a little instead of tearing them down, and enjoy the ride a bit ... even when things aren't going great. but I'm one of the pollyannas here.
I know the responses already. how we're supposedly better than most boards, which I don't think we are anymore. and I know some here think our complaining can have a positive impact on the program, because someone will read our brilliant obvservations, things they've never considered before (sarcasm), and decide to make changes that instantly turn things around. but I can't imagine how annoying this place is to a player or to the parent of a player.
this board has become such a miserable place. it's just not fun anymore. blame that on the team and coaches if you want. but we can also look at ourselves and decide if we're making things better or worse.